9 Sex Games That Will Guarantee More Fun in Your Bedroom
We have compiled 11 sex games that will make your bedroom more lively and fun. Check them out!
SEX GAME #1: TIME BOMB
You need: A clock or an egg timer.
How to play: Pick a time interval, let's say 20 minutes, (you can go with any time interval, so long as it's a change from the norm). For whatever interval you choose, tease each other with kissing, touching, and other forms of foreplay. But no matter what, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed.
Why: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science—and a bare minimum as well. "Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pregame show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together. You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative. You get really hot.
SEX GAME #2: BLIND MAN IN THE BUFF
You need: A scarf, a man's necktie, or a blindfold.
How to play: Blindfold him. Lead him to the bed or other locale. Then proceed to ravish him—slowly, recklessly, teasingly—however you feel like doing it. You call the shots. Let his arousal be your guide.
Why: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects—it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac (hello, just look at Fifty Shades of Grey). Together they can create a love explosion.
Variation: He blindfolds you.
SEX GAME #3: YOU ARE MY PRISONER
You need: Four men's neckties, or more elaborate restraints available at sex toy stores or online; a bed, preferably one with bedposts.
How to play: He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you.
Why: I have to admit, this is my favorite sex game—and I never even tried it until I was in my late 30s. I find it incredibly erotic to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of his attention and to have no responsibility for or power over what happens. I find it erotic just to think about. If you've never tried it, please do.
Variation: If you don't have bedposts, you may be able to tie your wrists to some part of your headboard or tie them together over your head or behind your back. You can get extra-long ties and be tied to the legs of the bed. This can be combined with blindfolding, but I actually prefer to see.
SEX GAME #4: BEACH BLANKET BINGO
You need: A big towel or blanket and a bottle of massage oil or cream.
How to play: Spread your towel on the bed or carpet and grease each other up with massage oil—legs, torso, breasts, everywhere. Now roll around for awhile and see what happens.
Why: You will really be surprised at the difference a little lubricant makes in the feeling of skin on skin. Sure, it's a little messy. But worth it.
Variation: If you have a favorite secluded spot, this is fun to do outdoors, even on your own patio.
Tip: Don't put mint or eucalyptus oil on sensitive genital areas. But if you have a non-irritating lubricant, greasing up the sexual equipment can be part of the fun. But remember that oil-based lubricants, including massage oil, can degrade latex. So don't play this game if you're using condoms or a diaphragm.
SEX GAME #5: CLOSE SHAVE
You need: Scissors, a brand-new razor and shaving cream.
How to play: Your husband shaves your pubic hair. First, take a hot bath to soften your skin and hair. Second, use scissors to trim the length. Third, lie on the bed or on a table and let that shaving expert, your husband, foam you up and shave you. It's scary at first, but if he's gentle you will not get nicked. He can shave everything or just neaten you up. One friend's artistic husband shaved her hair into a heart—or you can decide together based on your personality.
Why: Even though guys know what they see in porn isn't realistic, you'd be amazed at what a little similarity can do for your sex life. Bonus: Many women find the whole area much more sensitive without the fur, increasing their pleasure factor like woah.
Variation: Shave yourself without telling your husband, and let him discover what you've done. Be careful when shaving parts you cannot see (this is what mirrors are for). Also, once you've shaved, decorating yourself with the edible treat of his choice—whipped cream, warmed fudge sauce, frozen orange-juice concentrate—can be fun.
Note: Later, use baby lotion or another gentle cream to soothe the freshly shaved skin. And yes, it does get a little itchy when it grows back. Totally normal. But here's how to tell when it's not.
SEX GAME #6: TWISTER
You need: A car and a parking spot where you won't be interrupted (your driveway and your garage late at night are possibilities).
How to play: Have sex in the car. Pretend that one of you is a virgin. The other is going to teach him or her how it's all done. Give a step-by-step lesson on how to use hands, lips and other body parts to stimulate the teacher. Part of the game is to correct and improve technique as you go along.
Why: First, it's a blast from the past in the best way. Second, you find out things your partner likes that you didn't even know. When we did this my husband showed me things to do during oral sex that I really had never tried before, and I know I'm doing a better job now.
SEX GAME #7: KINKY CARDS
You need: A deck of cards and a timer.
How to play: Give each suit a sexy meaning: hearts mean kissing, diamonds represent a massage, clubs signify hands-on stimulation, and spades equal oral, says Cosmopolitan. The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. Take turns picking cards and teasing one another.
Why: This exciting game of foreplay will make you move at a teasingly slow pace that will leave both of you ready for more.
Variation: Make the moves even more intense by doing them for minutes, not seconds.
SEX GAME #8: TRUTH OR DARE
You need: Just you and your man.
How to play: Use this as an opportunity to learn more about your guy and try your craziest sex fantasies. Take turns playing the classic game; make sure your requests really reveal what you want.
Why: Turns out truth-or-dare isn't just something you play in middle school. Sexpert Dr. Ava Cadell, author of The Power To Mindful Love And Sex, says any couple can make it a very sexual game that leads to lots of laughs, fun, and carefree lovemaking.
Variation: Take your dares outside of the bedroom and get down to business all over your house…or even outside.
SEX GAME #9: THIS IS WAR
You need: Just you, your man, and possibly a pillow.
How to play: Try engaging in an intense tickle war or a naked pillow fight with your spouse. The one to surrender first has to perform a sexual favor for the winner.
Why: Dr. Ava believes that creating these new memories with sex games will make you associate fun times in your marriage with intercourse.
Variation: Slow it down by starting with clothes on and for every "surrender," the loser has to take off a piece of clothing. Play until you're both naked.
You never know how much these games can generate huge fun for you and your partner in the bedroom until you give it a try.
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