7 Character Traits that will Destroy Your Relationship as a Woman
If you don’t stop, then I promise you that your relationship will always be a terrible one and guys will always run.
Now, you might be lucky to have seen a man who is terribly in love with you and probably married to you, but trust me, you are just lucky for now. Very soon, you will run out of luck, his senses will come back to him and it won't be a funny scenario for you relationship and love life.
Having said all that, let's discuss the character traits you need to stay clear of:
Whining regularly
Only a damaged lady enjoys drama. These are the kinda ladies that take great pleasure in whining about something that they don’t like or which didn’t go the way they wanted. They will whine about anything and everything, just to make themselves feel better. Making a situation out of something small is something that makes a damaged lady feel alive as it feeds that inner crazy voice.Whining is cancerous and it will grind you, your man and your relationship down totally. If you are showing this character trait… Drop it!
Self entitlement
This is also known as a princess syndrome. Something happened during childhood (usually with your dad) that made you think that you are entitled to everything. You were the type that when you asked mummy or daddy for something, they would usually say yes. So no, wasn’t really a word that was often used around you.You are in a real life now my dear. You cannot always have what you want. This will only and always make you end up whining as discussed above. It is so bad you have been spoiled and you were not prepared for real life. Well, now you know the truth and the ball is in your court now. You can work on yourself.
Emotionally Unstable
We all know women are generally emotional. However, you should learn to control this emotions once in a while. Emotionally unstable women cannot control those emotions and they act out when in a heightened state of emotion. This is very toxic and incredibly dangerous for your relationship.Flipping out, screaming, shouting, punching, scratching etc when you don't get your way or when having a bad day will never help anything, but instead destroy! Learn never to let the outside world and negative factors affect your relationship because that is the last thing you need.
Predictable patterns of behaviour
Some ladies are fond of easily erupting with anger, lashing out physically, moaning and always complaining about something. If you are that type of lady, then this is a very detrimental pattern of behaviour. These behaviours are known to end up being part of someone entirely and if you are not careful, you will end up being that type of lady everyone, including your man will just be putting up with and that is if he decides to stay.Always late or has an excuse
Girls that are constantly late and always seem to have the most wonderful excuses are regarded as useless (no offense!). This will depict you as a person who lacks respect for their man, everyone and don’t take their time seriously. No man would love a lady that will never be able to keep up to time for important events. When I asked a man recently what he feels about this, he said;"What they are really saying by being late is that, I just don’t care about you as much as I care about me". That my friend is a worrying attitude for a woman to have and you should stop it.
Extreme jealousy
Lastly, one of the most important character traits to stop which can strip you and your man bare of friends, confidence, social media, enjoyment and happiness is if you are always getting jealous unnecessarily. Not regular jealous… extreme jealously.To the point where you have to look in your man's phone, at his messages on all apps to satisfy your curiosity that he might be cheating on you. This is very bad for you as you are not only killing your relationship, but you are killing yourself (Heart Attack Alert!). Apparently, you have been cheated on in the past or you have grown up around peers (parents, sisters etc) that have gone through cheating on several occasions, so you have developed a “He must be cheating on me” or “All men cheat at some point” mentality.
Trust me, you will go crazy if you keep doing this and no man will ever love that. Ditch that behaviour NOW!
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