6 Ways to Touch Your Woman and Turn her on Pretty Fast Anytime (Men Only)

The problem most people encounter in their marriages or relationships today is due to the decrease in the level of their sexual activities. Sex actually have a way of staying connected with your partner and if you fail in regularly accomplishing this aspect of your love life, you might have yourself to blame for it.

Men are generally known to have higher libido than women and due to this, they tend to be more sexually active in their old age than the ladies making them feel abandoned by their women in that zone. Well, let us give the women that as it isn't their fault (could be natural, environmental or whatever it is), but there is always a way out.

There is something men are not just doing right; I mean men seriously don’t know how to touch women, without coming across as creepy and weird but once you understand how to touch a woman, you will be able to spark attraction, build ridiculous levels of sexual tension and basically have her ready to always want you anytime any-day.

By touching women the right way, you can take any interaction with her and turn it sexual within minutes even without them knowing. Let's get down to business but before I start, please don't just read this, but practice and come back to tell us if it works or not.

Also remember that once you know how to do this, you need to know how to perform in the bedroom so you don’t keep disappointing and turning her off. Read these three Articles below to become a Master of Sex;

Ok! before we start talking about ways to touch your woman, let's give you the areas you can always touch to escalate things easily.

The picture above shows guideline on areas you should always concentrate on when touching your woman or any lady you are interested in. Now, here are 6 ways to help you achieve these touches;

1. NEVER DO THE GUY-TO-GUY TOUCH

This absolutely sends the wrong signal to your woman, as she will feel you are not interested neither will it drive any sexual urge straight to that point. When you’re with a guy friend in a bar having a chat, you tend to touch him in a manly, matey non sexual way. Don't ever do this to your woman.

2. GIVE MORE SEXUAL TOUCHES WHILE COMPLEMENTING HER

Bring up a topic that will allow you to initiate touch as this will give you a reason to touch her. Think about her appearance or something spectacular on her you could complement as shown in examples below;

I like your dress – Give her a compliment on her dress and touch it, saying something like “It’s nice material”. But you’re obviously touching her body at the same time. While touching the dress, locate those easily arousing parts to touch such as touching and rubbing the side of her belly as you touch the cloth or her legs/hips if you are both seated close to each other.

I like your earrings – Another compliment can be her earrings. By touching her earrings, you’re near her face and neck which are quite intimate areas. Touch those pieces and brush her face/neck in a very romantic way while taking your hand off.

Try as much as possible to always make eye contacts while doing this.

3. GIVE THOSE TOUCHES YOU KNOW YOU WOULD NEVER GIVE TO A MAN

Yes! You know them. There are ways you will never touch your fellow guy. Now that she is getting into the show, you want to push even more by throwing in some touches that are designed to show her that you’re interested in some way. For example;

Hands touching back to back – When you’re standing next to her talking, stand closely by her side (a less threatening approach) and lightly touch the back of her hand with your hand.

Back of the hand on her legs and hips – Take it one step further and graze her legs (whilst sitting down) and hips with the back of your hand.

The small of the back – Whenever you’re leading her, touch the lower part of her back, this is a very safe and secure area that women like men touching, which shows dominance and authority.

4. INCORPORATE HUMOUR INTO YOUR TOUCHES

Whenever you are doing this, remember to always put on a cheeky smiling face. Incorporating humour into escalating touches is a great way to get them laughing, thereby drawing more sexual tension and attraction.

Here are some ways you can use touch and comedy:

Draw out something creative on her leg (she’ll find it funny when she knows what you’re doing). Make her to guess what you are drawing each time.

Warm her up, hugging her so close by saying “are you cold” even when you’re in a hot place
You can come up with other things, just blend in with the moment and let them come naturally.

5. TOUCH HER BEFORE KISSING HER

Ok, now that things are really heating up, it is possible we are heading for the kiss close. By this point she will be familiar with you touching her, comfortable and very relaxed… hopefully enjoying the interaction.

Here’s what you need to do:

Hands through the hair – Run your fingers through her hair, whilst looking into her eyes.

Touching the face – Then gently place your hands on her face in one movement, after touching her hair.

Talking whilst holding her hands – Standing closely, take both her hands and hold them. You can even stroke the back of her hands with your thumbs, which shows affection.

6. TOUCH HER TENDERLY

Boom! Now we’re getting there!! Let’s say you’ve kissed her (or maybe you haven’t yet) but you want to continue touching her so that you can lead that to sex later on.

The next type is something called tender touching, which makes her more relaxed into it and into you.

With your arms around your woman, touch her back and neck lightly (this communicates affection). You can stroke with just the one finger, whilst talking to other people and no one else will notice.

Note that if she’s cool with you touching her at every point, then it’s game on. The key is to keep pushing forward with the touching to see when she says no. Most ladies won't, trust me!

So that’s it! Everything you need to know about touching your woman. Now take this knowledge and start practicing as much as you possibly can and don’t forget, you need to know how to please her in the bedroom too. Just follow the links shown above and you are good!

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